Let me just start off by saying my teen's are awesome! They absorb all the information I give them and this week was no different. We talked about Character Depth and how it connects readers to characters.
So, what does character development mean exactly?
It’s the process in creating a person in a story and the changes this person goes through in the story. Changes are the key. What? How? Why?
A few basic rules before getting started:
From the website: Church is an intelligent, immortal cat who was rescued by a Shadowhunter in 1878. He is usually a grouch, unless being petted, and usually does not let anyone carry him without some struggle. Jem is the only human Church has shown affection for and taken a true liking to. The cat served as a guide, as he always seemed to know where everyone was at all times.
HERE ARE THE 5 STEPS OF STRONG CHARACTER DEVELOPMENT TO CREATE MEMORABLE CHARACTERS IN YOUR NOVEL:
STEP 1: IDENTIFY YOUR CHARACTERS & THEIR ROLES IN THE STORYYou need to know who the main people in your book will be. It’s important to identify not just who they are – but also what their roles are in the book. Even minor absent characters can have important roles. Such as a father who died while the main character was an infant. Did he leave a lesson behind for the main character to learn from, such as learning from past mistakes, career goals, family secrets? The father is no longer alive but a memory of him and his mistakes and/or achievements could set as his character development and add to the main characters plot.
Whatever lesson you may learn here, learn this, clichés are old news. Think of how you feel when you’re reading a story and the characters act or do something cliché. It’s irritating, right? Think of the “Wicked Step-Mother” or “Insta Love” or even better “The Chosen One.” Pass!
Allow your character to stay true to themselves and their stories.
CHARACTER DEVELOPMENT EXERCISE:
When developing your characters ask yourself these questions:
STEP 2: GET INSIDE YOUR CHARACTER’S HEAD
Really get to know your character inside and out. Dig deep to get to know them. You may not need all this information for your story, but it’s helpful to know. Here are some example questions you can ask to get to know your character:
What do they look like?
What’s their pets name? Are they allergic to pets?
What’s their favorite color?
Who is their best friend?
When was the last time they went on a date?
What style of clothes do they wear?
Do they have any special jewelry or accessory?
Where does your character live?
Does your character live with anyone else?
What are their dreams?
What is their current living situation?
What is their favorite food?
REMEMBER: IT’S NOT JUST DEFINING THEM IN THE BEGINNING – IT’S THEIR JOURNEY AND WHO THEY BECOME!
Whatever genre and plot you have developed for your character remember the important thing, readers want to see changes in the character's personality and behavior.
STEP 3: RESEARCH!Research is a vital ingredient in setting the stage for your character. To get true depth, you want to research everything possible about the setting, plot, time, etc., of your story. Even if it is a topic you know a lot about, fact-checking never made a fool of anyone.
Do know there should be a limit. Have you ever fell down the rabbit hole of link click after link click? In a perfect world, I’d like to say no but that would be determined as a lie. Do accurate research, but in a necessary timely manner.
STEP 4: STRONG DIALOGUE = STRONGER CHARACTER DEVELOPMENTDialogue is an important part of almost every story. It’s how your audience connects to the characters, major or minor. That connection is what will lead a reader to stay or move along to someone else’s story. How might you add strength to your dialogue, you wonder? Consistency is one key factor.
Consistency is an important key element when it comes to writing dialogue, especially between characters. A character who has a sudden change in attitude or life perspective can be a bit of a turn off for readers. It can cause confusion if there is no reason for the sudden change.
If a character’s attitude and voice needs to change for your story, make sure it happens gradually and with resolution, which allows your reader to understand and sympathize with the character.
STEP 5: SHOW, DON’T TELLWho hasn’t heard the rule of thumb in writing Show, Don’t Tell? There’s a reason you’ve heard it so much. It’s true. It’s vital. It’s what makes a book thrive. If there was one rule of thumb every writer needs to know and work at it, it’s the show, don’t tell rule. Here’s why:
Example of telling:
Jimmy went to the store. It was hot.
This is an example of showing:
Sweat poured down Jimmy’s brow as he made his way down the cracked sidewalk. The heat was even causing the strongest of materials to become brittle and break. His body felt heavy, his skin slick with sweat. He dreaded the walk back home from the store with an arm full of groceries. It was a miserable day to be running errands.
Scenes and emotions are very important when you are writing. It helps readers see more, feel more, and ultimately get attached to the characters and their story.
PRACTICE THIS BY DOING THIS SIMPLE EXERCISE:
I do my best to teach my Teen’s every aspect of writing. I want to be the best Mentor I know how to be. Yesterday, we talked about first lines and paragraphs that captured us and drug us into the story effortlessly.
The biggest stressor I push: this doesn’t always happen right off the writing pen.
I am 32,000 words into my current WIP and after yesterday’s lesson was inspired by the exercise we did. I went back and sure enough, I spruced up that opening.
“Funerals were made for rainy days. Days when the sun wasn’t shining with life and the clouds were a blanket for our sadness. Maybe that was why I didn’t cry at Mama’s funeral. It was too bright to feel the coldness of death. I wasn’t sure, but as I stood there watching her casket lower into the earth, I was acutely aware of not feeling anything at all.”
Could this change again? Possibly. Right now I’m happy with it. The lesson learned, the story can change as it grown, as you grow. Don’t force it. Don’t rush it. Just let it flow.
Writing Exercise To Practice Opening Scenes:
1. Pick a first line from any book.
2. Pick a scene from a magazine.
3. Create your characters.
4. In 4 paragraphs, set the scene and let me see these characters.
It’s Springtime and with it comes the joys of blossoms and new growth. It’s also a time for rain, storms, and the risk of flooding. It’s a time when people get busy because there is so much to get done. However, just like our flower beds, there are things blossoming in the human mind that sometimes can’t be avoided. Thoughts sprout and the actions taken because of them aren’t always the right choices to make. It’s just like when a weed sprouts and we choose not to get rid of it as it will be fine. But what starts as a small weed turns out to become a big problem and is no longer fine. Same is the case with our thoughts and the way we respond as a society.
Yes, I’m talking Mental Health and the stigma that surrounds it. When you think of mental health what is the first thing that come to mind? Is it the concern for the other person? Is it compassion? Is there a lack of understanding or do you get it? Some will remark, “you’ll be fine” or “quit overreacting” but did you know that these same people could have a mental health issue and not even know it.
The issue with Mental Health Awareness isn’t about what you have, it’s about how you react to it. When your blood pressure goes up the doctor tells you it’s time to start walking and taking that prescription once a day, right? Same thing when we are overweight, have a heart issue, have blood sugar problems, have lung issue, have any medical problem that comes our way. We address it by taking the medicine, eating the right foods, and doing as the doctor tells us.
Same needs to be addressed when dealing with a mental illness, whether we hear it for ourselves or others. Or am I wrong in thinking this? Is the brain not an organ like the heart, the liver, the kidney? When you hear of someone needing a kidney transplant you don’t say, “Suck it up, Bob. You’ll be fine.” No. Instead, you hear words of endearment, “I’ll be praying for you” or “Don’t lose hope.” You see walks of encouragement and fundraisers popping up all over town. Guess what people, you can’t transplant a brain but it still needs the same love, attention, and support as if it could be done.
I’ve seen people throughout my life trying to hide their issues, be it: phobias, eating disorders, anxiety, anger issues, hoarding, etc. Do you know why they try and hide it? Because it’s not socially acceptable. Why? It’s the question I ask myself often. We accept that dad has high blood pressure and may need a triple bypass on his heart, but if dad came to dinner one night and said the doctor says I have anxiety and depression would you feel the same worry? You should. We all should.
It all boils down to knowledge and understanding. As a society, we do not have the knowledge or understanding to realize that these thoughts and disorders are real conditions – just like high blood pressure, kidney stones, ulcers, diabetes. As a society, we have lacked empathy from our lack of understanding. As a society, we don’t correlate these disorders as real health issues but instead as someone seeking attention. But did you know, mental health disorders stem from chemical imbalances. Oh, what a coincidence. The body is doing it to itself, just like when we have a heart attack. Strange, huh?
This is what Mental Health Awareness Month is all about. It’s not only about informing you, but it’s also to erase the stigma and make it known that these illnesses are out of our control, just as a stroke is out of our control.
How can you become more understanding and aware?
Understand by Reading!
Understand by getting informed!
Here is a list of amazing titles (fiction and nonfiction) that take you inside the fears, the thinking, and the lives of someone who is either dealing with a mental illness or someone who is facing living life with someone with a mental illness. Enjoy and become aware!
The turkey has been eaten, minus the leftovers that we purge on for days (thank you, Jesus, because that means mom doesn't have to cook haha). The shopping was organized and now is done. It's time to snuggle up in some pj's and get ready for some downtime. At least, that's how I'm hoping to spend my weekend. How about you?
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P.S. I am GRATEFUL for each and every one of you!
The writing/reading community is the best community and I'm so thankful for the support now and every day. Hope you all had a wonderful week and are now prepping for an amazing weekend.
"It's not your facial appearance that matters. It's your souls beauty."
This is the last line I wrote this morning as I tried to reach my NanoWrimo goal for the day. NanoWrimo, boy, there's something I never thought I would be doing. I signed up for it years ago, thinking this seems cool but then never took it past the "Oh, this is cool" statement. I signed up and then never thought of it again. It's a typical bad habit of mine that I've come to recognize and am working to overcome. I am (was) a dutiful signer-upper, who once past the signing up part never batted an eye to go back and dig some more. Trust me, Nano was not my only victim. There have been hundreds.
This year, however, after going to therapy and having this urge to do better with my life and quit half assing everything, I started narrowing down my sites. Then came NanoWrimo time. Everyone was asking, "Are you doing Nano?" My new instinct was to say no. I'm not doing Nano. My site list of commitments is full. Then came the encouragement, the longing to finish Murder Is A Debate, the feel of excitement. I wanted to do Nano. I wanted to hang with the crowd and encourage one another as we met our goals. There was no question after the fire hit, I was doing Nano this year.
Now, I'm hanging with the cool kids and getting words down faster than I was before. I'm finishing Murder Is A Debate and planning out a short novel. Will I get them done? Who knows, but I can promise you I'm further along with the goal than I was a week ago.
The thing is, I'm not sure I would have been ready before now. "Trust the timing of your life." I believe this. Wholeheartedly. I've struggled and pushed until I was sick because I was trying to keep up with so much. I wanted to stay up to date and publish another novel and another. I was doing unhealthy things to stay awake to read one more article on this or one more book on that. It was terrible.
Now, after taking a year off and coming back with a new release (WHISPERS IN THE LAKE) and actually ENJOYING NanoWrimo and participating in it while still able to run my freelance business and spend time with my family, well, I don't think it would have been possible a year ago, two years ago, three years ago.
Is Nano important for every author?
No. It's a choice and something each writer must decide if it's right for them at the time. For me, it hasn't been right. Not until now. Now, I wanted the commitment, the encouragement, and needed the accomplishment. Some writers may not feel this way and that's completely okay. Nano is not a badge someone wears that states "I'm a real writer." It's a community that comes together to encourage one another to finish that project you've been working on forever. Even if you don't finish the count of 50,000, as is the goal on the website, you still finished more than you did before. You are still a writer.
So, whether you choose to Nano or not, know that all things come in your timing. All decisions you make are made for your current life. There's no pushing what can't be until you are ready and acknowledge what is right for you now versus what the world is telling you.
How many times have you found yourself questioning why you continue to stick to an industry that seems impossible? Why continue to put forth the effort when it seems the payoff is never going to happen? As a writer who has been in the industry for six years, let me share why I continue to stick with it. Because it’s my dream.
Yes, it’s frustrating.
Yes, I have my moments where I’m on the verge of walking away but I know I won’t. I won’t because when I do, the only person I’m giving up on is myself.
It all boils down to remembering why you started. You started because it was your passion. It was your dream.
We are writers. It’s what we do. However, it’s easy to lose sight of the writing when we get sucked into everyone else’s success. We compare ourselves. We read our work and think it’s not good enough. But look back throughout history and the writers who were told they would never amount to anything and now we consider them legends.
They may have thought about quitting – I can almost guarantee they did – but then remembered why they couldn’t.
Recently, I reached out to a few authors who I admire. They all have multiple titles published and been in the indie business for quite some time. Here’s what they wanted to share with writers who feel like they’re in a slump.
Don’t get stuck in a rut.
“The very same week I won the Utopia Author of the Year award, I was told that a book I was pitching to various publishers wasn’t of “mainstream” quality. So, yes, I absolutely know what a fickled and frustrating industry this can be. Why then do we keep on? Where do we find the motivation? We find it in the beauty of pursuing our passion and doing what we love. That is a path few get to follow. My advice? Don’t allow yourself to get stuck in a rut. This is an industry that demands change and evolution. Be vigilant in trying new things, exploring fresh ideas in both your writing and marketing efforts. Seek out writing retreats, or author signings as well. Connecting with our community is a fantastic way to reignite your enthusiasm to write.”
~ Stacey Rourke, Author of the Unfortunate Soul Chronicles
Stay the course!
“If a person gets the opportunity to chase their dream, that’s an amazing and epic thing. That dream for me is being an author. As writers, we get to create worlds and characters, to bring our imaginations to life. As most of us aren’t independently wealthy, we want our dream to be profitable or at the very least not break the bank.
The market is always changing. Sometimes it’s hard to keep up and easy to be discouraged. But being an author and writing books is a marathon, not a sprint. If you were fortunate enough to find early and huge success, that is awesome. But for the rest of us, it’s our habits that will make or break us. The best advice I’ve ever heard in this industry came from Katy Regnery. I listened to her speak on a podcast called The Connective Collective a few years ago. The podcast isn’t around anymore, but her words stuck with me. “Keep your head down and write,” she said.
And it is that simple. Make good habits. Write some every day if you can. Set hours if that’s possible. Join a writing spring group or get a buddy to write with you. Find friends and authors who can uplift you. Avoid negativity and drama at all costs. Keep your head down. Write the book you want to read. Keep querying if you want to go the traditional route. Keep learning. Get better at what you do. Learn how to market. Learn how to make successful ads. Listen to podcasts. Go to conferences if you can. But most of all, enjoy what you do. Because if you love what you’re doing, it’ll show in your work. And it’ll pay off in the end.
Stay the course.”
~Casey L. Bond
“Hi, all! I want to thank Brandy for asking me to contribute here, and quickly introduce myself. I’m Tish Thawer, bestselling and award-winning paranormal romance author, best known for my Witches of BlackBrook series. When Brandy asked me to share advice for authors who’ve been at it for a while, but may feel like throwing in the towel, my first thought was… “How would my advice differ for authors at others stages of their career?” And the answer was… it wouldn’t.
My advice is for all writers, whether you’re just starting out, been at it for years and feeling as though you’re still “in the slump” or break-through authors who’ve finally had their big “I’ve made it” moment and that advise is… just keep writing! I know it sounds cliché, and you’ve probably heard it a million times. And while it is true, my reasons may be a bit different than you think.
Yes, we’ve all heard the adage, “Your best marketing tool is your next book” and while I absolutely believe that, for me, the suggestion to ‘just keep writing’ has more to do with your state of mind than your numbers. Let’s pause here…
I was once on a panel at RT where I proclaimed that my idea of success was probably very different from others on the panel, mainly because I didn’t write for the money. Well, as you can imagine, that got a lot of varied reactions. Some of the panelists agreed, while others graciously did not. Saying, that if they couldn’t make money at it, then they wouldn’t be doing it. I’m here to tell you, either is OKAY… and that’s the point. Write because you love it, even if you haven’t honed your craft yet. It will come. Write because you have a character in your head that just won’t go away. The story will come. Write because you are looking for financial gain. The money will come.
Success may not happen fast and may require extra steps like reading a “How To” book to perfect your sentence structure or listening to an online marketing course to gain the understanding of how to reach those readers, etc. But if you invest in yourself and just keep writing… it will come.
Now, that’s not to say you have to force it. I’m definitely not about that! In fact, I once wrote an article regarding the exact opposite that you can read HERE! What I’m saying is… find things that continue to inspire you and just keep going no matter the reason. You cannot become a prolific writer if you stop writing halfway through your journey.”
~ Tish Thawer, author of the Witches of BlackBrook series.
It’s no secret that authors adore their fans. We would be nothing without you guys. We grow off your reviews. Swell with pride at your praise of our characters. Your reviews help our books shine like nothing else can.
Oh, but honey, you are worth so much more than a review.
There are days, more than you would probably imagine, where a writer sits down, looks at their computer, and asks themselves, “Why am I doing this? I’m no good.” They’ll then sit there for the next 10 minutes, 30 minutes, heck maybe even hours thinking about the pros and cons. That is until they hear that little ding. It could be an incoming message on one of the many social media platforms they try and keep up with on a daily basis. It could be an email. It could be a number of things.
The writer is distracted from their destructive thoughts, where they're tearing themselves down into a pit they may not escape that day. Then they see your message, the one you sent on a whim because you couldn’t get the story the writer wrote out of your head. It could have been a simple I love your books to a full description of how they could relate to the characters. There could have been an attachment with a beautiful hand-drawn portrait of a girl and the moment the writer saw her, she knew it was of the heroine in her book.
Slowly, your letter starts to lift the spirit of the writer. The hole they had dug for themselves starts to fill and they can now crawl out instead of staying stuck in the pit. All because you took five minutes of your life and sent them a small message, showed your true love through art, or commented on a picture they posted. It’s a simple act that lasts for years.
Oh, you thought we read those messages or glance at those pictures and then never give them a second glance or thought? Wrong! We keep it for future reference.
“Every time I receive a heartfelt message from a reader who says they loved my books, I get a little teary. Some have even made fan art. Every time I feel a little down or overwhelmed, I’ll read a message and am reassured that it’s all been worthwhile.” -C.J. Archer
This very thing happened to me last week. A reader sent me a simple message stating my character Brynn had ended the feud between her twin daughters. They are always in competition. One’s name was featured in Star Trek, but the other girl had never found her name spelled correctly in a book. Not until she read The Shadow World Trilogy. But wait, that’s not all. Brynn’s middle name so happened to be Nacole, spelled just like mine. #Winning. Her mom sent the appreciation and wanted to let me know I had made her daughter so happy. What really happened there; they had made me happy by sharing their story. There was no review. There was just appreciation from both sides. Plus, this message couldn't have come at a better time for me. See, perfect timing even when you don't know it.
You are more than a reviewer, more than a gain to another sale. You bring the characters to life. You bring joy to a writer’s life and give them a purpose to keep going. You mean so much more than you think.
I was once one of those who convinced themselves I didn’t need a schedule. I had it all under control in the ole noggin. I felt I had nothing to fear. I was a dang fool! For years, I wasted too much time thinking I had everything under control. It had even got so bad that moms around me would say, “Oh, that’s just Brandy. She’s always late.” Not the best feeling in the world, let me tell you.
And the only person I had to blame was myself.
The problem was I didn’t know where to start or how to keep my commitment strong. I tried, over and over again by keeping a planner, but then I’d forget the planner or wouldn’t write something down because ‘I would remember.’ Like any bad habit cycle, it was one I had trouble breaking.
To say my life was a mess was an understatement.
Still desperate to find a solution, I watched an online video on Marketing and Sticking With It. The video gave me several ideas. They also recommended several apps to help keep you organized. Taking the leap of faith with myself, yet again, I bought a notebook and purchased the app Any.do. Needless to say, it changed my life!
I’m happy to report, I’ve been organized and keeping to a schedule for six months now, with no setbacks I might add. This may not seem like much to some, but trust me, it’s a HUGE improvement in my life and my families. And let me tell you, it was so gratifying to be able to surprise others by being on time to events with all the necessary items that were asked to be brought. Yes! Rewards.
The two things you need to get organized.
1. A To-Do List
This list will help you identify what needs to be done and help you define and organize. For me, when I’m planning a book release, I no longer freak out and try cramming so much into a short period. For instance, I’ve planned out the release of Whisper on the Lake, the third novel of the Chindi Series, and am already way ahead of schedule compared to past releases. This can happen with any business or personal plan you want to achieve. The longer out you can plan, the better. Think of you local Calander of Events. I received a copy of the Downtown Russellville Organization jus the other day and was amazed at the details. Inside, they had a year full of events from the college to the local businesses to city events. It was well planned out, and people could plan for these events well in advance.
2. A Calendar
This is where you identify when you’re going to do those things. For me, I use Any.do and implement my to-do list on specific days. Any.do allows me to assign tasks or events throughout the year, and then helps me plan my day every morning for the tasks I assigned that day. Throughout the day, it reminds me of the tasks that are not complete. Amazing! And it’s so gratifying getting to click on those tasks and watching them disappear.
An important rule when planning, always leave time for breaks and free time. You’ll quickly burn yourself out if you don’t live a little and watch that show you recorded on the DVR or read that book you bought two weeks ago. Goals are great to be reached, but not at the cost of forgetting yourself and those you love.
Scheduling and planning is such a confidence booster.
Tell me, what are your planning hacks and tips?
Eight months ago, I started on my journey with audiobooks to produce Deep in the Hollow. It was terrifying and exciting all at the same time. Where did I start? How long would the process take? Could I even afford to make an audiobook?
All these questions swirled through my mind like a wind storm while I contemplated whether I was ready to take this step or not. Most would think, yeah, let’s do this. It will take me to the next step in publishing. That’s true. It will take you a step farther in this tech-savvy world. However, there is an appropriate time to make this decision.
Did I? No!
You’ll notice after reading over previous blog posts; I tend to make a lot of on the fly decisions. Sometimes it’s worked out for me, but more times than not, it doesn’t. This works out good for writing articles about what not to do, such as this one. Hey, you got to look at those plus sides.
When I decided to leap audiobooks, I didn’t leap, oh no, I flung myself off the cliff. I got pumped and went straight to audible and signed up. From there, I posted my book and started taking auditions―all within ten minutes. I didn’t read any of the warning blogs. I didn’t bother to read the policy. After all, how hard could this be? My book was finished, and I wanted that audiobook.
Here’s where things started getting complicated. The auditions started coming. This should be a great thing, and it is until you have to fit listening to them into your busy schedule because you didn’t plan on having to listen to twenty different girls try to nail the voice you have imagined for your character. While I have major respect for all audio actors/actresses, they’re not all going to cut it when it comes to your character.
After stressing over cramming more into my schedule and going through the auditions to weed out the ones who weren’t a fit, next came going through the ones who I liked. For me, I hate making decisions. If I could, I’d have an assistant who did nothing but make decisions for me.
Once I thought I had the perfect actress to fit Jo’s personality, I sent an offer. This is where I wish I had negotiation skills. My first pick wanted too much out of my budget range per hour and demanded to be paid per edits afterward. What does per edits mean? It means after the first draft is created if there was an area in the book I didn’t like and I wanted her to fix it I had to pay for it. Needless to say, I had to move on to my second choice. Now, if I’d looked at each profile before narrowing them down to favorites, I would have seen my first picks demands in her profile and could have saved myself several hours and mad faces.
After weeding through more choices who didn’t fit my budget, I found Jo’s voice actress. Yay! The recording began. From there, it’s pretty simple. They record. You listen, note what might need to be fixed, send it back. They fix it. You listen again. This process is repeated until the book is where you think it should be.
Now, Deep in the Hollow is available in audiobook and I couldn’t be happier.
However, here are some tips I should have considered first.
1. Be prepared for the journey.
Once you’ve decided to jump into an audiobook production, read all the recent material available on the site. I chose audible. Look for a change in policy, warnings, and other tips to help make the process smoothe for you and the audio actor/actress.
2. Set a budget and make it clear.
Some voice actors/actresses charge by the hour, others might charge by the project. Be sure you know your budget and an estimation of how many hours it may take to produce your project. Most audio sites will have a chart of estimations.
3. It’s not a race.
Listening to your auditions are going to take time, make sure you have it. You can’t listen to ten seconds of a recording and go, “Yep, that’s it.” Take your time and be sure.
4. Check the audio actor/actresses profile.
Know their expectations, so when you reach out to them, you can tell them yours and the discussion will not be a blindsided conversation.
5. Don’t rush through the finals.
When receiving your first draft don’t rush through listening to it. Be sure to follow along with the book on hand to be sure there are no missing sentences or words. We are all human, and accidents happen, but it’s best to catch them before approving the final copy.
If you're thinking about creating an audiobook, it truly is a great feeling to hear your story being told, but be sure you are in the know and ready for a long process.
Best of luck!
Wow! What a year it has been, filled with its fair shares of ups and downs. That’s life, right? Things I hadn’t considered or prepared myself for in life was hearing of all the trouble my son was having and having to learn how to cope so he could cope. What an eye changer that was for me, a good one in my opinion. There’s so much I’ve learned because of my son. Funny how the parent thinks they are the one to teach the child, and then we don’t even consider what the child teaches the parent. There were the downs of having to see him struggle, but the ups of working through them together.
This insight helped open my eyes to my writing and how I run my life. I spent a lot of time stacking wood onto the pile, but I wasn’t stroking the fire. I wasn’t allowing myself to grow because I was blind to how I was also hindering myself. The revelation didn’t strike until a month ago, but what a difference this last month has been. Now, I have a solid plan, a schedule, ideas mapped out so they compliment one another. It’s not a jumbled mess like they’ve been in the past. Now that I understand, I can focus. This had been one of my son’s problems. He didn’t know how to focus because of his issues. Now, after stepping back and accessing it, he knows how to approach it.
Even through the jumbled mess, however, there were plenty of perks.
In order to have a breakthrough year, you will need to take giant leaps and big risks. Bounce on the devil and put the pedal to the floor. You have to smash through that goal.
Where did such fine advice come from? One of the top resources I’ve been researching, studying, and implying to my life the past few months. Lisa Jacob’s Your Best Year 2018. Lisa Jacob’s is one of the best gems I have discovered this year. I have learned a lot from Lisa about doing for doing’s sake versus doing to further your goals. I highly recommend her book if you feel like you’re in a rut and need some direction. Whether your goals are personal or business, her advice is solid. I am so thankful for the relief I now feel with some direction, versus the zig-zag path I’ve had the past six years.
What’s to come in 2018 book-wise? Lots!
Happy New Year to you all. May 2018 be your best year yet!
Writing my thoughts and experiences one post at a time.